I know exceedingly well how sensitive people are about their software making connections to the net, and that’s perfectly reasonable. In Photoshop CS4 & CS5, you can choose Preferences->Plug-Ins, then uncheck “Allow Extensions to Connect to the Internet.” If you’re a system administrator & want more control over how and when Adobe apps can connect, these tech docs may be useful to you:
The Product Improvement Program is another opt-in component that can communicate over the Internet:
http://bit.ly/aL9ebv